Thoughts...

This past week, I was in Gatlingburg, TN, celebrating Christmas with extended family. But I also found time to sit back and relax, and think about the future and how I want to live. There are a few things I promised myself this week, but something that stuck out to me is how to treat people, specifically the male species.It was something that even today I found myself doing, and that is just talking or arguing with the guys around.

I want to have a marriage with my future husband to be so that when I'm old, in my 50's, 60's, 70's, I want to still love him just as much, and SHOW him that. Walking hand in hand in the park, him opening doors for me, making him dinner, helping him with projects, and a kiss every now and then.

I know that's something that every girl dreams about when she's young, and from what I have observed, it isn't very common, but I want that! It is possible, but it takes work and love from both sides of the relationship. I don't want to be hardened to my relationship that we ignore eachother or I yell at him, because he's going deaf and he feels like I nag him too much!

It is still a long way away from where I am right now, but it has been something on my mind lately, and it's never to early to start thinking about how I want to live my old, married life! This is also something that I can just work on now, with the guys in my life, and how I need to be treating them. But I do know one thing, I will be working on it!